Power of the spoken word prepares both the state of mind of the speaker and the attitude to be developed by the listener from simple dialogue. Initial awareness of wrinkles may exist but certainly not holding even a minor place in determining the level of the relationship.

The speaker holds an important key by not continually allowing past negative experiences to be verbalized. Once released these words promptly become the overriding points determining dialogue of numerous conversations. These words may be shared with numerous people through different conversations. Each time their consistency hits the atmosphere more negative aging powers are being fed.

An elderly mother may still be telling the world of the behavior of her eldest son. This could be the simple reason for the old angry face and lined skin which was totally unnecessary. The age old warnings we have been given not to ponder on things of the past has a special purpose.

Unnecessary words from memories have the strength to not only age the speaker by indicating a date or season but to build and water feelings of anger, rage, resentment and unforgiveness. Maintenance of any of these, no matter how small or distant has the power to prevent any youthful glow even if a good cream, vitamins, tonics, diets and gym fees are being purchased and diligently followed.

Copyright 2006 Patricia Little